Date a soulmate from California, United States. I'm a feminine yet independent and fun/funny/silly (?) woman looking for a real man. I'd really like to have some big strong arms around me. I need a man who's got it all together, is independent, honest and true, but who acts on his passions (and takes me with him--MOST of the time--we all need our space after all!).Must be self reliant and strong, but good-hearted. A certain silliness and occasional sarcasticness are also plusses. I'd like to find a guy whose personality is part Clint Eastwood/Dennis Miller/Chris Rock and...Cary Grant!