Date women from United States / California / Camarillo, 48 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. If you are ready to date a real woman... Well here I am. My friend recommended match.com to me to meet the right person. He found his soul mate on here and I am willing to give it a shot and I am am trying to buy a man with the money I invested on here. So if you are willing to be bought (ha ha ha) Just kidding. Actually I am looking to find the right man that is wanting and willing to be a part of my life. So, I would like to find a MAN who doesn't mind a little adventure. Someone spontaneous that is not scared at trying things out once to see if they like it. An open mind. Aside from adventure I don't mind a little romance and affection.
I work hard and play hard. One of my dreams is to retire soon and go live in the mountains in a cabin or by a lake, but unfortunately I have to continue working but one day I hope to share my dreams with someone.
I love a man who likes to do small projects around the home, someone who is good with his hands (wink, wink :-), that enjoys good food, an outdoors person, someone who can make me laugh and has a sense of humor and takes things lightly.
I am not looking for someone to waist my time nor am I looking to waist anybody elses time, but that doesn't mean that I am looking to settle down right away either. I'm excited and hopeful to meet you. Talk soon!

Meet someone special from California, United States. I've been divorced 8 years, with a 4 year relationship in between. I've spent a lot of time working on myself, my imperfections, who I am and how I prefer to live.. IРІР‚в„ўm almost perfect now, just kidding, LOL! I married young and remained married long past the expiration date for my children's sake. He and I get along remarkably well. I am old school in that I believe that my man should be cherished. My perfect Match is quirky, playful, physical, intelligent (not necessarily scholastically), LOYAL, creative, witty, old fashioned romantic with traditional MANNERS. I am extremely sensual and believe 99.9% of what makes a relationship work is physical chemistry. It's precious and when found should be worked on daily. I'm not afraid to ask for what I like or want. I am comfortable being the aggressor at times and think outside the box. Human beings need touch, a tender hand down the side of your face; a look that says "I know". I like sitting on the floor with my head in my mans lap or just cuddling, talking about the day or just being quiet. I am a native Southern California girl, with Gidget qualities, and a die hard PATRIOT! A preference of mine are Irishman, (my kids are 1/2 Irish American) a Scot, Brit, Aussie - maybe - but it's unlikely I'd match with someone not born in the USA. Too much unknown history and different past triggers. I've practiced Taoism for 5-6 years now, a philosophy stressing Compassion, Moderation and.Humility. Humility, or the elimination of "ego" is a hard concept to grasp for me as it must be for others. I'm convinced people don't recognize how driven our lives are by ego. I feel most comfortable in the outdoors and dislike malls and shopping in general. Except Vintage, I like the attention to detail and pride in craftsmanship of the past. I consider myself a minimalist, yet multifaceted, love laughing, am strong, intelligent and tender. I enjoy sarcasm, a quick wit and word play. Talking politics is fun so long as we agree to disagree. I play guitar, a bit of piano and flute. I generally dislike having my picture taken and it shows. I am a good listener, self confident, shy in the beginning but open up quickly. I'm a writer of prose/poetry/short stories and perhaps a novel some day. A voracious reader since childhood, there are few subjects I am not interested in. I think learning is a lifelong quest. That should be important to you too. Everyone seems to have their long list of requirements.As I read other women's profiles I feel I come up very short by comparison. Still, I'm open to possibilities, perhaps there is someone who likes low drama living, like me. I don't believe in changing people like outfits or changing who they are. A nice, sweet man who wants a friend and wants to take things slow. I am feeling a bit of the "empty nest" syndrome and nearly nothing makes me happier than cooking for someone.
Lastly, I live alone in Camarillo and I am not looking for a man to take care of me. I don't feel the need to marry, don't believe a piece of paper is the glue that binds but I will remarry and prefer the man I meet be willing to do so as well. I only say that because it shows a willingness to monogamy which is a must have for me.

Date a woman from California, United States. I'm grateful for my faith, good job, a roof over my head, the ability to support my family, time to spend with friends and family. Just need someone who'd like to share all my blessings with. Is that you?