Date someone special from La Habra, United States. Hi, or hello. I'm a gentleman who has been separated now going on 8 years,. I'm new to Southern California having moved here last fall from Montana. I would like to meet and get to know someone who knows how to laugh, take things lightly, accept others for who they are. Someone who believes a relationship is a two way street, nobody in charge nobody left beside. I'm a good man who's kids have grown and I find myself on my own. I like good books with good stories, historical novels and bio's- good poets and good poems. Any play on words I'll get a kick out of. I like good conversation and I think of myself as a good listener. I joined this match.com thing a little less than a week ago. Guess I will see what happens.