Date men from United States / California / Escalon, 56 year old

Date someone special from Escalon, United States. I'm not going to write about the things most men do when describing themselves, all about their toys, job, blah, blah, blah. I define myself by who I am on the inside: a man of integrity and character. Having raised my kid's pretty much on my own I believe helped shape me to become a better man, a better person, kid's have a way of doing that (surviving the teenage years is another story...lol) but you mom's out there already know that. My daughter is 24 and my son is 21 and in the military serving his country. I have a grandson who is 2 1/2 and going through the terrible two's...lol
I love the beach, sun, ocean, mountains and love to travel, especially to tropical locations and weekend getaways. I've had the opportunity to have lived in Europe (Paris) so someone who likes to travel would be cool. Got a passport? I've got a great quirky sense of humor, I'm authentic, honest, transparent, emotionally grounded, financially stable, outgoing, a very positive attitude to life, love a challenge, and am pretty much open to anything new. I'm very playful and romantic, passionate, affectionate and I like to show it. I love to laugh and let the little kid out and look at life from the glass is half full approach.
I'm looking for a lady who is easy on the eyes, unpretentious, down to earth, great sense of humor, sassy, intelligent, playful, passionate, spontaneous, a bit of a wild and crazy (not that kind of crazy...lol) streak to her as well as the ability to let her walls down in order to connect at a deeper level of intimacy. Capable of letting the little kid out to play. I'd hope she'd be a good communicator who genuinely wants to work out issues as they come up. Emotionally mature, low maintenance, no drama, honesty and integrity are must haves. Must be a great kisser!
I'm searching for a long term relationship (life partner) not serial dating or hooking up for one night stands. If you are searching for the same as me and my profile interests you, don't be shy, drop me an email, who knows, it may be the beginning of a life long love affair!!
P.S...It's very flattering to get winks, emails and IM's from the 30 something year olds but I'm not interested in dating anyone that young, there's nothing in common to connect with. In my opinion women in their late 40's and up have an aura and sensualtiy that younger woman don't yet have.
Question..can you tell me the name of the song below and the artist who performs it? Prizes are at stake...lol
In the instant that you love someone
In the second that the hammer hits
Reality runs up your spine
And the pieces finally fit