Date a soulmate from California, United States. I am new to this site but am enjoying the fact that one can narrow their search with greater accuracy. I know what I am looking for and will know when I have found it (her). I am not perfect and I am not looking for perfection. There are certain qualities I am seeking in a relationship. I love to be romanced and to romance you in return. The simple things you can do to show someone you care. A home cooked meal. A back or shoulder rub when you are tired. A card or note sent or left behind. Holding hands, give or receive warm, close, hugs, a kiss as long as it is both ways. I will be supportive and your right-hand man if, and when, you need my help. I enjoy thoughtfulness both ways and will always let my woman know she is needed and appreciated I enjoy hanging out with family and friends, Bar-B-Qing or preparing a nice meal at home. I am looking for a close friendship first and am hoping that it will turn into something more meaningful and lasting, after getting to know one another better and realize it is moving in the right direction. I miss having a special someone in my life to share all the wonderful experiences life has to offer.