Date men and women from United States / California / Santa Barbara, 58 year old

Date people from Santa Barbara, United States. I am fun, energetic, and passionate about life. My life has never been better except for one thing.
I am looking for a woman that shares these qualities, but in her own way. I like self-confidence and someone with a solid sense of who they are, what they like and want, and the will and drive to make it happen. If there was one absolute, it would be a sense of humor.
I hope listing what I desire is helpful for you in deciding if I am someone you are interested in, but at the end of the day what I want can be put into three things: a lover, a friendship, and a 'partner.'
A deep love for an amazing cup of coffee and glass of wine wouldn't hurt.
Who am I? Well you can tell I like coffee but it's not a deal killer...
My friends tell me I am a renaissance man. I like to learn. I like to cook. I love to dine on well prepared food with wine and conversation. In fact one of the unexpected pleasures of starting over is enjoying long, unhurried meals and conversation. I like to travel. I like pretty much anything that floats or flies. For instance, I skydive (sounds crazier than it is). I play guitar, and I like to immerse myself in new (to me) music. I like my friends. I love to take nature photos, especially on and around the sea.
I love nature, but I also love to visit big cities. I always visit museums when I travel to a new place. The MET is amazing. I love art, especially from the masters. Leonardo da Vinci and Michelangelo are two of my favorites. Art, music, science and engineering combined.
I love my work but I can leave it behind. I work hard and play hard, and I do have an off switch. I do relax and enjoying simple pleasures. My exercise is primarily swimming.
Interested, what should we do? For me a first date is about getting to know you and having fun, learning about each other, and providing fuel for a spark. Let's go out for a walk, or maybe sit at a nice outdoor cafe, have a glass of wine, and exchange some stories about life, work, or anything you are passionate about or just enjoy.
I average about two weeks of business travel to Europe and Asia every two months which I expect could be distracting for building a relationship. On the other hand it could provide great opportunities to add vacation time and meet in really fun and interesting places.
I hope you like what you see. I especially hope that the right person reads this and thinks: "there could be some chemistry here…"
I learned this from my skydiving buddies: 'We don't take chances to escape life; we take chances so life doesn't escape us.' Let's take a chance, have some fun.
I just realized that this is a bit like the Wizard of Oz. I am looking for Judy Garland with a heart, courage, and a brain. I know you're out there.

Meet single man from Santa Barbara, United States. Im and honest hard working man who loves to spend time with the one he cares about most. Im looking for a women who is not affraid to date and possibly build a mature adult relationship. Very laid back and sarcastic, like to have fun day to day. Have somewhat of a wild side, but not warrants are issued ;) Just looking to experience life to the fullest with someone who is like minded and ready for fun. In addition to that i enjoy bbqs, hiking, boating fishing, and generally outdoor activities. Recovering from back surgery and cant wait to get back to normal activities! I wear my hair long and like my tequilla strong! I enjoy being around my family and activities that involve them. There is so much more, but will save that for when we meet!

Date a soulmate from Santa Barbara, United States. I am an eternally optimistic person, not much gets me down.I am in a very competitive business with a high rejection rate.But it is very exciting when I breakthrough.I am a very generous,loving,loyal and understanding person with tremendous energy.Very outgoing and inquisitive looking for a partner who wants to broaden her horizons.I am actually 64,i adjusted my age because I need to find a woman that can keep up with me.I definitely move at a pace of a 45 to 50 year old.

Meet someone special from Santa Barbara, United States. I seek ONE woman and look for some mutual interest before email etc. I hope for a sweet natured and accomplished, fit, adventure seeking lady to provide the foundation and the fire in my heart. I like puzzles and challenges on emergency scenes as well as in life - how about you ? !
I am trained to "take charge" in emergencies but I seek intelligent input from an "equal partner" in life. I have retired as a Fire Captain and am now focused on finance and real estate investment and development in resort areas of the Rockies and the coast. I hope to blend an enjoyable future with work helping those less fortunate than we. I helped build "the five star site" to secure the funds needed to accomplish this.
I wish for an inspirational life partner who will motivate and join me in pursuing the most enjoyable, fulfilling, fun life possible. I prefer a hike to a waterfall or watching a thunderstorm together from a covered porch - rather than a smoky casino!
I have enjoyed an exciting and varied life as a Fire Captain and successful business owner and investor. I have had great success but now recovering from tough times. Emergencies and tragedies experienced in the line of duty were not pleasant but they remind me how precious each day and hour of life is so a "setback" does not get me down.
My 2nd career is flexible and allows me to connect extensively with a large variety of people as friends. My kids are off on their own leaving much more time for enjoyment and passions.
I love to dream and then follow up on my visions and have achieved many of them already. I would like to find a new love to share the pursuit of those that we have in common together! I would like to spend my future with someone who would enjoy regular visits to Hawaii and the beautiful mountains, lakes and streams of Idaho, Alaska and the Northwest. I also want to spend time in China, Baja,Ireland and travel to Canada, Europe, New Zealand etc.
Would you enjoy RV travel, camping, fishing, hiking, concerts, mellow Harley rides,climbing, beach walks and more! Let's go!!
I am looking for a very intelligent, healthy and attractive lady who takes excellent care of her body,heart and mind and soul. She is attractive as her natural self and dedicated to fitness. She has a radiant smile and a sweet and feminine nature and yet feels that she is an equal and deserving of respect and will get it !
It would be a plus if she has good business sense. She is knowledgeable in many areas and able to make decisions and handle problems in my absence.
Faithfulness,Trust and spirituality and a positive outlook are key. Also the love of nature, animals, occasional mellow Harley rides, hot springs, fireplaces snuggling and fitness are desirable areas of common interest.
I want to stay in great shape and would like to be inspired and motivated by someone feeling the same. I would like my love to experience with me the thrill of hooking up to large fish in Baja or on a river whitewater rafting or fishing for trout and salmon.
I love to boat on lakes but it is more to explore, observe the eagles and other wildlife and be outdoors and camp. I want to travel and enjoy wineries,concerts,sports events, amusement parks, beach time,fishing and wilderness backpacking. I like to tease and be playful ( wrestle? ) and I like the same in return. Some setbacks and tough times are inevitable ( like 2007 to 2011 ) but we will rebound with new strength and enthusiasm because of our spiritual beliefs .
I would like to write, learn to paint wildlife landscapes and build custom homes overlooking the ocean and beautiful rivers and lakes - I have some sites already.
What would you like to do? I want to see you accomplish those dreams with me at your side !

Date a man from Santa Barbara, United States. I am a man I don't want to be lonely I see togetherness and lite company I would like to cook together play together grow together sleep together I can see doing some active outdoorsy stuff like backyard bbque or beach chairs on the sand. Maybe drive to the top of camino ceilo when it snows

Meet men and women from Santa Barbara, United States. I left Santa Barbara, California on Oct. 15, 2011. I have traveled throughout California, Arizona, Nevada, Utah, Colorado, New Mexico, Texas, Louisiana, Mississippi, Tennessee, Oklahoma, Arkansas and Kansas. My Crusade is to feed the poor and make a Documentary on Rescue Missions, various other Charity Groups, and find solutions for those Americans who live on the Streets in the USA.
I have driven over 12,800 miles in the past 185 days on this last journey. I am searching for the true survival skills of the individuals who have very little to show financially, but have the heart to continue with the Struggle to provide food and Shelter for their love ones.
I have written over 400 pages into a Book I am calling the American Survival Kit. I now have a Website called “THE AMERICAN SURVIVAL KIT. COM”. I have a free sample on my Website for the World to see how easy it is to live on $1,000. A Month.
To this day, I have submitted 45 videos of my findings of People, places and things to learn about on this adventure.
My Goal is to travel to as many States as possible and help as many people as I can in my life time. I have heard the cries of the American People for many years now. I am saddened that these cries are not being silenced, by the Compassion, of the Blessed individuals who has the funds and the power to do what’s right in the sight of the Lord-GOD! I do not belong to any chosen group of Religion, but I am a follower of the creator of this planet, and understand the spiritual bond each and every one of us holds close within our hearts.
I am looking for a smart and loving woman who would be willing to hold my Video Camera while I interview the Homeless People throughout the USA. I will be in every State in America in the next 12 Months. Looking for a GOOD HEARTED WOMAN to come join the Crusade to Change the world one day at a time as I have…

Date someone special from United States. I am a very active person, who appreciates each day and enjoys every moment. My life is enhanced by my family, friends and my career.
I have two grown children, who are wonderful human beings, and only bring joy to my life.
I enjoy activities such as bike riding, roller-blading, going to the movies/concerts and walking along the beach. I am a member of the Surfrider Foundation. I even tried paddle-surfing this past summer!
I am looking forward to meeting a man who is kind, intelligent and secure. I like men who enjoy going to sports events, dinner and I would appreciate meeting someone of the same faith.
Traveling is one of my favorite pastimes, and I have journeyed to many parts of the world. One of the things I love about my job is that it allows me a lot of flexible time.
Thank you for reading my profile, and I look forward to hearing from you........
p.s. Primary Photo was taken yesterday....7.14.12

Meet a soulmate from United States. I'll keep this as short as possible. The trick is not to over-sell, while at the same time not under-selling myself. Most of us on match "enjoy wine", exercise 3-4x week, answer "NO WAY" on the smoking question, and drink socially, etc. Quite often if I am particularly busy that's about as far as I read through on someone's profile. I take a look at the photos, glance through, scroll through the text and if anything grabs my interest, or attention then.... I'm in! SO, with that said....hopefully my intro makes sense. I'm looking for more than just a special date. I'm looking for a plus 1 to share life's experiences. Marriage minded is preferred. I have been single for a long time and now I'm ready to experience life from a different perspective. Even though I am comfortable and OK with being single,I would prefer being with someone at this stage in my life. I am independent, self-reliant, motivated,... not desperate, clingy or needy.
The short version of who I am: optimistic, funny, educated, interesting, genuine, compassionate, curious, sensitive, creative, intuitive, healthy, fit, active, warm-hearted, open-minded, versatile,generally happy in life. A Mother and dog lover. Talk is cheap, you can decide for yourself.
Others frequently describe me as fun, good sense of humor, easy to be around, gentle, kind, "sweet" (I get "sweet" all the time), classy, (I'm told that a lot) smart, thoughtful, playful, genuine, upbeat. When you meet me, what you see is what you get. I don't have any deep secrets or enemies that I know of. I'm pretty simple, not too complicated and I really value keeping it that way.
I like simple things. Less is more kind of thing. Love the sound of windchimes, hammocks, floating down the river, full moon, watching the lightness of snowfall, immersing myself in a really good movie or book, a bike ride, the fragrance of jasmine, fresh garlic, cooking,(did I say I LOVE cooking?) decorating, or looking into the eyes/soul of a dog, a simple, elegant dinner with some artistic flair, ambling through Farmer's Mrkts., Fall is my favorite season. I have had a very active and versatile life, and have done many things which I can tell you more about later. I have been blessed with good physical and mental health,(no drinking or smoking etc.) a wonderfully talented ;successful daughter, some great friends all over the place, and various opportunities for which I am grateful. I am well traveled, have been to all but 1 state, Europe, the Caribbean, Mexico, and Canada. Hopefully my match also has the love for travel, as well. Favorite sports or recreational activities would have to be dancing, scuba, yoga, bike riding, almost anything in the water; boating, diving, sea-kayaking, and skiing(learned to ski in Aspen, but I haven't been in awhile) I lived outside of Aspen for 20 yrs.. and Ca. for the past 10. I recently read that "you are the artist of your life." You have to create what you want. Places that I still want to see; Peru, Chile, Argentina, Easter Island, other direction;Nova Scotia.
My ideal match is kind, genuine, honest, has integrity, always a gentleman, is successful, intelligent, has a comfortable life style with good friends, good family, good taste, is fun and has a great sense of humor (but I am willing to train if you don't have one!) He takes pride in his appearance, his health, and his home. Maybe the MOST important ingredient is having compatibility with my match. Being able to laugh together, and be comfortable. He is also at ease in just about any social setting, and he knows how to act in these settings. If he doesn't....he has the finesse to figure it out. I am really attracted to smart, classy men. OK, I guess that covers the basics. I know you are out there! (SOMEwhere) and it doesn't matter to me if you are 3000 miles away, I'm game for surprises. I'm adventurous enough to meet you. I actually believe in success stories on match and I would love to be one of those

Date people from United States. I am creative, spontaneous and love truth and passion. I care for my garden and a 17 yr old son.. I
work-out and meditate most days. I am looking for a friend andor partner who is compassionate and
wants this next chapter in our lives to have real meaning and value.
It would be nice to find a man that enjoys good conversation, has a creative spunk and adventurous
nature, There must be chemistry. Other than that.......sense of humor and an easy going manner. Are U out there?

Meet a woman from United States. I am a happy woman, basically content, with an adventurous streak who laughs easily and listens well. Genuinely open to learning, accepting of life as it is and continually enthralled with its potential. Eternally optimistic and perpetually curious. I love anything on the ocean and I never get seasick. Hendry's and Carpinteria are favorite and frequent beach walks.. I enjoy flea markets and farmer's markets. Cooking for and with friends – especially with some of our finest local wines. Love live theater and torch singers. I'm hoping to meet a man possessing of personal integrity, humor and intelligence. Someone who realizes that the simple things in life are often the most rewarding, who enjoys occasionally taking the road less travelled and laughing along the way. Ideally, my match will share some of my interests and introduce me some new ones. Characteristics also ranking high on the wish list are creative, compassionate, wise and strong, with the ability to laugh at himself.
While I am sincerely interested in meeting and sharing time with the right person, this forum has been a whole new experience and prompts the following caveat: I am not looking to be taken care of. Neither am I looking to be anyone's caretaker or therapist. If that be your interest, I wish you well in your search.

Date men and women from California, United States. Wow!! Time went so fast, it's almost 6 months since I signed up with match.com to search for the man that will give spark in my life...still no result & my search is about to expire...maybe I gave the wrong information. How about this?
I came from a big family, the oldest of 11 children. We didn't have much but we have each others LOVE,TRUST, and RESPECT.That was enough to keep us all bonded together in spite of struggle in life. We were taught to always respect our elderly and being the oldest, I have to set myself as the role model. I matured early. At 7 years old I was already given the responsibilities of a 25 years old. I really don't remember being a kid playing with a baby doll nor being a teenager hanging out with teens. I was busy helping out raise my little brothers and sisters and up to this moment everyone still look up to me including my nieces and nephews. The fun part of it is that.....WE ARE A BIG HAPPY FAMILY and we appreciate and very grateful of what little we have. I can't describe the feelings I have when we all get together.WE LAUGH TILL WE CRY and WE CRY TILL WE LAUGH...does that make sense?
I came to U.S. 35 years ago through marriage,Three years later, I brought my mom after my dad past away.. everyone else was left behind. Mom & I worked very hard to support the whole family back home till everyone finished school & had their own families. It was a lot of sacrifices and hard work but had survived.. My family is my pride and joy. It's a treasure that I'm very proud of and my mother is my most precious best friend. She taught me of everything that I am today and now she is the well known "MAMA TESS" and loved by many in town... A real MOTHER THERESA, that's the foot steps I'm almost in. A very good hearted woman with an unconditional love she gives to all no matter who or what you are and will never expect nor ask for anything in return. Nurturing and compassionate.This is the life that I'm happy to share with the right man...& that's not all,still a lot to offer but too many to mention.
MOST OF ALL:
We need to teach our DAUGHTERS the difference between a man who FLATTERS her and a man who COMPLIMENTS her.
A man who SPENDS MONEY on her and a man who INVEST in her
A man who views her as PROPERTYand a man who treats her PROPERLY
A man who LUSTS after her and a man who LOVES her. A man who believes he is GOD's GIFT to woman and a man who REMEMBERS a WOMAN was GOD's gift to MAN and then teach OUR SONS to be that kind of MAN...

Meet someone special from California, United States. My friends would describe me as head strong, hard to decipherunderstand, serious and wacky!.
I lived most of my life outside the US so am a bit awkward with people here, even though I grew up here.
I am looking for a friendship in first place then we'll see. Friendships are gold and last forever, relationships not always.
I hope and dream to live in the country mountains with my dogs and a horse or two again.
I am a very social person but cherish my privacy and personal time.
I am passionate when discussing worldly subjects! My European life taught me that!