Date men from United States / California / Pinole, 47 year old

Date a man from Pinole, United States. I'm the kind of person that believes the right relationship matters more than anything else. Other things are important as well. Don't get me wrong. I would love to have a BMW. But without the right person to share all those nice things with, it's really kind of an empty experience.
I love the color black. Not because I'm evil, but because it goes with most things and just looks beautiful. Yes, I admit that I'm drawn somewhat to dark, gothic, beautiful things. But it's just the aesthetic. I love mystery and intrigue. I also think it's the most romatic color of them all.
Speaking of which, I am a very romantic person. I love the kind of date that really makes the woman feel appreciated, protected and enjoyed. I'm definitely not a clingy person. I'm pretty independent. But I never forget that you have to actually DATE the person you're with. If you don't romance her, no wonder you have problems.
I am very hard working and love what I do. I tend to put a lot of time into it. But I always find time for people I care about.
I am not the kind of person who likes to be combative or spiteful. But I am also the kind of person who will always peacefully stand his ground and agree to disagree. I haven't been in a fight since grade school. In fact, at work they often send me on the jobs with the toughest people because I'm always able to calm them down and make them at ease. I've made a lot of really good friends with this approach.
I'm not arrogant, but I do believe that you have to walk into the room like you own the place and show your confidence, well armed with information and ready to answer all questions. I am the kind of person who wants to make sure people are satisfied with any solution or compromise I'm involved in.
I'm open-minded, but I also have my own system of beliefs. I'm always open to change if I need to and patient enough to accept and even celebrate the differences of others.