Date women from United States / California / Davis, 41 year old

Date a soulmate from California, United States. To start, I am not looking for anything serious right now but I wouldnt be opposed to it if things started leaning that way. I would like to take it slow though. I have been separated for over a year now and we have both moved on but still havent divorced. We parted on friendly terms but have minimal contact.
I am a very fun loving person who wakes up almost every day with a smile on my face. I tend to be more of a morning person. I love waking up to crisp cool morning air and sitting on my patio with a cup of coffee.
I've been told Im pretty funny and would like to meet someone who has the same zest for life and who believes laughter is the best medicine. Life's too short to not enjoy it! I am kind, caring, generous, dependable, loyal, honest (almost to a fault) and would like to meet someone with similar morals and values. Im smart, witty, funny (did I say that already?), sexy, sarcastic at times (all in fun), silly, non-judgemental, and have no tolerance for racist (ignorant) people.
Im looking for someone with the same characteristics and who is self sufficient. Im looking for a friend, lover, and companion. I dont want to be any man's mother or maid. I've already done that and "no thank you". I just want a man that can meet me half way. I dont know why thats so hard to find. I am a good woman with alot to offer the right man, but if you still live with your parents, dont have your own transportation or a job, please dont waste my time.
Im an optomist and am happy most of the time so no downers please. People like that weigh too heavy on me. Im not into the bar/club scene and therefore do not live that lifestyle, so if you are into drugs or drinking alot, please do not contact me.
Im easy going, low maintenance (except my pedicures), t-shirt and jeans kind of girl...but I also have a very feminine side. I like to look good for my man and try to take care of myself.
I can get along with just about anyone and am liked by most. I can be comfortable in just about any situation/setting.
I have 2 daughters (23 and 6yrs old) so you must like kids and you must like animals as we have several pets . My oldest daughter has her own place and works F/T and goes to school F/T. My little one is of course home with me and is shared between her dad and I. My kids will always come first, but if your a parent, you already know that. I would expect the same if you have children and I would prefer to meet someone with kids as they understand the committment and sacrifice it takes to be a parent. Ive been told Im a great mom and I would have to agree...hehehe.
Im very close to my family and see them often and would like to meet someone who is also close with theirs as I believe family is extremely important.
I have a great career that allows me the freedom to work from home and take care of my children financially and otherwise. I make decent money on my own and am very independent.
I have strong opinions and have no problem expressing them but I am mindful of others feelings. Im not out to be mean or hurt anyone. I just stand up for what I believe in. Hope I havent scared you all off...I just know what I want and dont want. Obviously I tend to be a bit forward (hehe). If you think you can handle all of this and would like to say hello, then I look forward to hearing from you. If not, thats ok too and I wish you the best of luck on your journey!

Meet a woman from California, United States. I think that life brings extraordinary opportunities and I love to find them. I want to share adventures with someone who can go for all life has to offer. I am a joyful person with an affectionate heart. I am looking for someone who is thoughtful, gentle and open to trying new things.
I want to keep this short because I want to save all my secrets for when I meet you.... I love mystery..... and, I love to surprised you!

Date someone special from California, United States. As for me, I love to laugh. I believe in dreaming big and working towards every goal I set. I am compassionate, honest, a slight "smart ass" but in a fun way. I am looking for someone with the "glass half full" personality. I can be the life of the party and enjoy being with friends and family. But you will also find me looking forward to alone time with my someone special, staying in having a great dinner, movie or taking that spontaneous day trip to somewhere new.
I love being creative and you will find me creating new recipes, working on a new project on the house, or helping friends and family with party planning. Martha Stewart has nothing on me :)
I want someone with a moral compass, honesty is the most important thing I look for in a partner. I will be your best friend and your biggest cheerleader in life as long as the respect is mutual. I looking to make a positive and sincere friendship this time around.
Now if you happen to cook, I think that is super sexy and would love to challenge you to a cook off :) But don't let that scare you off, I'm just as happy with someone that likes to eat my cooking as well.