Date women from United States / California / Santee, 52 year old

Date a woman from United States. I'm passionate about:
being a great partner and the ability to not take myself too seriously, chemistry, learning something new, being kind, my family, being a great friend, trust, affection and so much more. I love cheering for my team (whatever season it is) w/o researve, I cry when I need to and I love to laugh until I can't breath, I love swimming in the moonlight, listening to great music, slow dancing to a wonderful song, massage, romance, creating a great meal and ambiance for someone I care about, listening to you tell me about something important to you, children's curiousity, the beach, the mountains, the desert, sunrises and sunsets, photography, meeting new people or staying in bed on a cold day w/ movies and someone who wants to share that bed...
I'm looking for someone w/ a great smile and eyes that I can look into, who takes care of themselves (but I'm not looking for perfect), I want to feel safe w/ you - knowing you wont use words as weapons because you can't take back words, I want someone who has a positive outlook, everybody has bad days but it can't be everyday, realistic, optimistic, nonjudgemental, sexy, fun, likes fine dining AND back yard bbq, has to like sports and holding hands- great kisser too, generous in spirit, common sense and supportive, loves the Holidays!! and to celebrate birthdays!! Has a quick dry wit - you'll have to keep up but knows when to be sensitive. Do you have a great circle of friends? Terrific!! So do I! I love San Diego and love to do all the tourist stuff and the things only locals know about. I'm grateful to have survived alot of what life has thrown my way with a great degree of grace, no bitter baggage and I always have the attitude that something/someone wonderful is about to happen.

Meet someone special from United States. Hi! Well, here goes...the perception I have of myself is only true to me, but what I believe to be true about myself and how I also believe friends/family view me is that I am honest, caring, giving almost to a fault, energetic, a hard worker, dedicated, loyal, and a little reserved until I get to know you. I have been told I am smart, I can be witty and tend to be a bit sarcastic, but not in a mean way. I am usually poking fun at myself more than anyone else. I view life as entertainment and peoples’ mistakes and idiosyncrasies are usually more endearing than annoying. It takes a LOT to get me angry. I always pull more than my share of any workload and find it difficult to sit while others are working; I am a “do-er” and tend to get in the way because I try to help too much. I am not a member of any church but I think I am a better person than many who are, I will always try to do the right thing. I believe I can tackle whatever it is that needs to be done given physical limitations. I am fairly handy with tools…I know the difference between a flathead and a Philips and a chop saw and a table saw… but I don’t want to be the man of the house nor am I a manly woman..I just do what needs to be done. I enjoy looking like and being a woman but love wrestling with the grandkids and chasing Popsicle boats barefoot down the gutter with them when it rains. Okay, so if you are still reading…some of the not so wonderful things about me...I am a pushover, I am too nice, I tend to be on the lenient side, I am too trusting, Ii am gulible, I always give everyone the benefit of the doubt, I need to exercise more, I usually think I am overweight although others tell me I am not, I can’t relax if my house is a mess, I get lost easily and regularly (Navigation is my new best friend!). So that is it, that is how I view me… want to challenge my opinion? I am a giver through and through, but need someone smart, caring and hardworking to keep up with me. I'd love to meet someone with a positive attitude who can find joy in everything around him and help bring out the best in others.