Date men and women from United States / California / Santee, 39 year old

Date a man from California, United States. Let me start off by saying that I have 10 girls to raise. Just kidding :), I have 2 girls who are with me half of the time and I love every minute I get to spend with them. My girls and I are pretty close and I not only try to be a great dad to them, but I try to lead by example. My family and friends are very important to me and we spend as much time as we can with them. I enjoy doing activities outdoors from playing sports to some good old BBQ with friends and family. Beyond that, I enjoy exploring what San Diego has to offer. Even though I am born and raised here, there are so many things that the city has to offer that I look forward doing or trying. I guess you could say that I like a good challenge when it comes to activities to challenging someone I’m with and vice versa. When I’m at home, I enjoy quiet nights just relaxing and doing whatever comes to mind. I am laid back enough to realize that you have to enjoy every second that you have. I’m a firm believer of communication, affection, and supporting the person I'm with on all levels. And yes I can cook. Well at least I think I can. Haha

So ultimately I am looking for the girl that I can get lost in conversation with just as easily as we can share one of those moments of comfortable silences. I love to laugh and joke around as I can be very sarcastic and quick on my feet. Nothing like having someone around that you can laugh with uncontrolably over something that can be absolutely ridiculous. So I can definitely be a kid at heaert but can be serious when I need to. I dont care for drama and dont like arguments. I would rather talk about an issue then avoid it. My job is awesome, but I know when I leave the office my personal life kicks in and I know where my priorities are. I want to be able to share my passions with someone as well as some of theirs and discover new ones together.

Meet men and women from California, United States. My subscription just ended, and I think I'm going to leave it that way for a while.
My friends tell me I'm funny, a good listener, smart, loyal, creative and have a big heart. I'm usually pretty quiet, particularly at first, but I can be pretty fun and talkative when the mood strikes or the chemistry is good. I love to tell stories, and I have many of them. And making people laugh is always a good time! Technically, I'm 38, but people are always shocked to discover that, and I've had many people tell me they thought I was just a very wise 27-year-old. I'm a photographer/videographer/graphic designer, and eventually I hope to teach photography at the college level, as well do some personal (or be paid well by someone else!) documentary-type projects in places like Africa, India, even Iraq or Afghanistan. It would be great to find my best friend to share all of this with!
Who I'm looking for, let's see...
I'd like to find a Christian girl with some depth to her, who is capable of compassion for others, is friendly and warm, isn't materialistic, has a good sense of humor (or can at least appreciate one), knows how to be healthy and takes care of herself, affectionate (hey, let's be honest, I love a good cuddle a kiss as much as anyone), and enjoys adventure, whether it be in another country, a hole in the wall secret spot with amazing and previously untasted ethnic food, or just taking a little hike at Mission Trails. Let's get to know each other and see where it goes!

Date someone special from California, United States. A likeable guy looking for a classy lady to brighten up my life and allow me to brighten up hers. Like simple things, walks on the beach and through the park, like to save up for special times out of town or at a fancy place that I don't normally attend. I love San Diego, can't imagine ever living anywhere else, but I like to travel.

Meet a woman from California, United States. Me: Reaching for the stars and catching dreams every day. I am passionate, driven, highly professional in my career and utterly fun loving and easy going in my free time. I take life seriously, but I am not afraid to laugh at myself. I am spontaneous, outgoing and always up for an adventure.
You:Number one requirement, must be secure in himself, comfortable in his own skin, knows who he is and what he wants in a relationship. Someone emotionally mature but child like in your enthusiasm for life. Somebody I can admire, that intrigues me and makes me smile every day.

Date people from California, United States. About me;
I'm a very spontaneous, intense woman very passionate about life. I like trying new things, love learning new things, visiting new places, meeting new people.
I enjoy watching sports, exercising, dancing, watching movies, cooking, etc.
I am very respectfull, loyal, very affectionate, hard worker and fun,
Who I' looking for:
Somewhere out there is a great guy who will not only want to introduce me to new things, but will also like to try some adventures that are new to both of us. He will not only put up with my wacky moods, but he may even think they are cute, (even if he won't admit it.) The man I would like to meet is confident and self assured, but isn't cocky with an over-inflated ego. I am looking for a guy who can keep me on my toes both when it comes to intellect and energy. There is nothing that I won't do to support the people I care about, but if I think you are wrong I will tell you and I hope that you would do the same for me. Are you a man who is filled with surprises? When you hold me in your arms, are you the type of man that will make me feel safe and warm? Have you made it all the way to the end of my profile? Then what are you waiting for? Drop me a line and let's plan our next adventure.

Meet someone special from United States. ABOUT ME:
I am a single mom who is independent, but far from being a feminist! I have kids who are getting older and venturing out into their own social circles, therefore leaving more time for me to venture out into my own. I'm still their greatest supporter and biggest fan in their activities, and always will be.
I'm a happy and outgoing person who looks to have a good time in just about all I do. I love to laugh, and quite often, its at myself. Letting my hair down and being a little wild is what I look forward to every other weekend when the kiddos are with their dad, My "wild" consists of a couple drinks and some dancing while listening to live music. I like movies, music (classic rock, alternative rock and country), dining out, BBQ's, the beach, walking anywhere and every where, long drives to Julian, comedy clubs, and hanging out with family and friends. Happy hours are a great way to end a long and stressful week. I absolutely treasure my down time, wishing I had a snuggle buddy for TV or movie time while on the couch. Cooking late night dinners, holding hands, laughing and frequent kissing is imperative in any relationship I'm in. I've been single for 5 1/2 years, and only interested in a LTR at this time in my life. If you're into dating only, then you can pass me by at this time, however I do believe that a "friends first" approach works best for anything that may turn into something great and beautiful long-term.
I have a great job, own my own home and financially independent. Taking long walks is my main form of exercise, but a visit to the gym when its raining or too hot is a must. The kids and I love to be outside any chance we get. Staying active and being healthy is my priority for me right now. Turning 40 in 10 months, and I'm determined to be in the best shape I can possibly be. Anyone wanting to do it with me, BONUS!

BAD STUFF:
I cuss like a sailor when I stub my toe or get behind a slow driver, Im impulsive and restless at times, I love waking up too early on the weekends and will try and get you up with me. I have very little patience for flakes, can be opinionated, and a little outspoken, although I always know when and how to behave like a lady.
ABOUT YOU:
You are over 6' (Im 5' 8" and like to wear heels). You're funny, confident and you have a softer side when the time is right. You have a mixture of some good boy, bad boy going on. I'm looking for a guy who likes to play but who can keep it real. Someone who makes me feel protected, safe, secure and significant and who is supportive and encouraging. I'm a sucker for goatees and admire a stud at the bbq. Oh, yeah!!
I do not like shouting matches, smoking, psychological torture, games, broken promises and a holier than thou attitude. Mean what you say and say what you mean. Please, please, please have current pictures, just like I do :)
Now lets get this party started! Email me!