Date men from United States / California / Joshua Tree, 20 year old

Date a guy from United States. i am laid back but i get the job done when i need to. i am the type of guy that loves life and of course music(dont think i could live without it lol). i am a very nice guy and i dont like people thinking they can just use me because im really nice, because that wont work just btw. i can be mean if you try to screw me over. i am a little bit shy when you first meet me but once i get to know you better and vice versa then i will open up more and become alot more comfortable and less shy. i enjoy helping others. i am very confident and once i set my mind on something i want to accomplish i do it and dont give up. i play the guitar and my dream is to become a musician.
I am looking for someone who looks to get the most out of life, who understands me, and someone who is nice, smart, loves music and going to concerts and someone who doesnt get mad alot. just someone who is very caring, and who doesnt judge others all the time. also someone who would love to travel the world. and it is a plus if your favorite bandone of your favorite bands is metallica. that is my favorite band and i listen to them like all the time. and also looking for someone who loves to laugh, watch movies, and is comfortable alot, just like someone who doesnt think so many things are awkward lol. i am just really looking for someone that really wants to date seriously and who doesnt just use people, if you catch my drift lol. i am up for friends at first then dating or just friends. but yeah im mainly on this site for dating.
i grew up in Virginia, and i have also lived in Ireland for 2-3 years when i was very little. i now live in California. i am easy to get along with and i am a great guy. whoever reads this..you probably hear that alot but really, i am a great guy.
a great date would be something where we can actually talk and get to know each other more, well unless we do that on this website first then just do something fun, and no movies for a first date, we can go out to dinner somewhere nice and just get to know each other, there are so many places we can go and where we can have fun.